My sister and I were raised by a single dad, which was considered a unique family structure in the 1980’s. As a result, we have always been close. During my last years of high school my dad remarried, and my step-mom and sister joined our group. Those with blended families know it takes time to work out the kinks (there is hope ~ we tease that twenty years later we all get along!). To add to the stress of a new household size, at this same time, my dad’s company closed, laying him off from work. He used this unfortunate event as motivation to return to college full-time to begin a new profession. Concurrently, my sister, who is one year older than me, was graduating from high school and enrolling in the same college as my dad. A year later I joined them. All three of us attended the same college simultaneously!
Until transitioning into the financial aid profession, I did not fully comprehend the important role our offices play on a college campus. When working with students, I try to reflect on my own life experiences, like those years when my dad, sister, and I were enrolled at the same college. Professional judgments may not have been available twenty years ago, but if they had been, our family would have benefited from one.